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During the beta, DateNWed is invite-only. Our team reviews each request to join.
Astrology meets modern matchmaking
Love, by the stars and by design.
DateNWed brings thousands of years of astrological tradition to modern matchmaking, for people dating with marriage in mind.
See how your signs speak to each other, alongside the values and goals you share.
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- Members join by invitation
- Birth details never stored
- Open to everyone, 18 and over
The honest numbers
Looks and filters only take two people so far.
Photos, quick judgments and a handful of filters tell you who someone appears to be. They say very little about how two people talk through a hard week, or what each needs to feel secure.
We believe a lasting partnership deserves a deeper starting point.
Roughly 40–50% of first marriages in the US end in divorce.
Most matching starts with
- Photos and first impressions
- Distance and age range
- A handful of filters
A lasting partnership runs on
- How each of you communicates
- What each of you needs to feel secure
- Shared values and a similar pace of life
- Commitment, tested over years
We cannot promise a different ending. We can offer a richer place to begin.
What we believe
Compatibility speaks a deeper language.
We believe the usual way of matching people leaves out most of what makes two people good together. A connection can look right on paper and still fall flat in person.
For thousands of years, people have looked to the sky to describe character and connection. It is our belief that astrological compatibility is part of the picture modern matchmaking leaves out. DateNWed exists to bring it back in.
We follow Western, or tropical, astrology: the tradition behind the sun signs most of us grew up reading. It is a belief and a tradition, offered for reflection and conversation.
A very old conversation
- Ancient Babylon Sky-watchers keep careful records of the planets and the stars.
- The 2nd century Ptolemy sets out the foundations of Western astrology in his Tetrabiblos.
- Today The tradition lives on. DateNWed brings it to modern matchmaking, with a birth chart for each person.
Meet AstroMatch
Five themes, read in plain English.
Add two birth dates, and a birth time if you know it. AstroMatch compares the two charts and describes five themes, to give you something richer than a photo to talk about.
For fun and conversation
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Chemistry
The spark between you: attraction, and how each of you gives and receives it.
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Communication
How you think and talk, and how easily you tend to understand each other.
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Emotional connection
What each of you needs in order to feel at home with another person.
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Lifestyle & values
How you like to live: your pace, your priorities and what matters most.
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Long-term potential
How each of you approaches commitment and growing together over time.
The sky, in plain English
AstroMatch looks at these parts of each birth chart.
- Suncore self
- Moonemotional needs
- Mercuryhow you think and talk
- Venushow you show affection
- Marsdrive and desire
- Saturncommitment
- Rising signfirst impression
How it works
Four steps, taken at your pace.
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Request an invitation
DateNWed is in beta and invite-only. Our team reviews each request to join.
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Create your profile
Tell us about yourself and choose your intent: dating, a serious relationship, or marriage.
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Discover with insight
Browse matches by shared values and lifestyle, with AstroMatch insight alongside to give you something to talk about.
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Meet and grow, at your pace
Take your time getting to know each other. Wedding planning tools are coming later.
Your journey
From first date to wedding day.
Choose your pace. DateNWed is built for each stage; the wedding tools are coming later.
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Date
Meet people who want what you want. Say hello when you feel ready.
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Relationship
Grow together, with honest conversation and AstroMatch insight to start it.
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Wedding
Coming later: a wedding planner and a vendor directory, in one place.
Trust, safety and privacy
Built to feel safe from the first hello.
Your birth details stay private
AstroMatch uses your birth date, time and place only to run the reading. We never store them.
Open to everyone
All genders and orientations are welcome. Tell us who you are and who you are looking for, in any combination. Members must be 18 or over.
Where we are
DateNWed is available in the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada and Australia.
You deserve a relationship that lasts.
Come with your questions, your values and your birth date. We will help you begin with something deeper than a photo.